I Bloom Where You Hold Me: Tirdad Hashemi
‘I Bloom Where You Hold Me’ moves through love, intimacy, and resistance as quiet forces that sustain communities through joy and struggle. Flowers recur as symbols of fragile yet enduring bonds, growing where they can and insisting on care and connection. Collaged layers stitched with needles form delicate networks where closeness can wound and heal at once, embodying the tension between vulnerability and resilience.
It is in the refusal to let connections fade, in the insistence on caring when it feels impossible, and in sustaining relationships even when it is difficult. Each drawing fights to hold onto what matters, demanding that love, attention, and community survive and push back, even in moments of doubt, fragility, or isolation.
The drawings, made in collaboration with Tirdad’s partner for the show, hold moments of intimacy, solidarity, and quiet power, revealing how life and love continue even when the world feels unwelcoming, and how relationships themselves can become acts of hope.
Text by Yalda Bidshahri
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Tirdad Hashemi and Soufia Erfanian, Painting is the only language I can truly use, 2026 -
Tirdad Hashemi and Soufia Erfanian, She cried through the garden, loud and unbound, petals shaking as if they felt her fear. I said: you’re too sensitive. She hummed: I want you, only for myself. Our fears bloom differently. She runs after me, I skip between the flowers, 2026 -
Tirdad Hashemi and Soufia Erfanian, The sun kissed us until it burned. We drank, we laughed, like wildflowers. Those nights in Marseille... like a flame. Oh like a flame, 2024 -
Tirdad Hashemi and Soufia Erfanian, Without undressing her, I watched her unfold, soft as a bloom becoming itself, 2024 -
Tirdad Hashemi and Soufia Erfanian, Your love teaches my bones how to grow wings, how to rise without trembling, how to look at us from above and feel no anxious shadow anymore. In the silence between heartbeats I see us glowing not loud, not burning, but steady like a star in the endless d, 2026 -
Tirdad Hashemi and Soufia Erfanian, “My name is Tirdad. Soufia Erfanian is my wife.” That’s how she wants me to introduce myself to people when I first meet them, 2026 -
Tirdad Hashemi and Soufia Erfanian, You expect me to give this piece a title? All I can give you are black body bags, each hiding a corpse of people I can no longer name, 2026 -
Tirdad Hashemi and Soufia Erfanian, She blew the wish flowers, one by one; come back, come back... until the wind stopped carrying your name. And then, she forgot it too, 2025 -
Tirdad Hashemi and Soufia Erfanian, Left unnamed, 2024 -
Tirdad Hashemi and Soufia Erfanian, I was never meant for so much quiet, a cactus grows in solitude, and so do I. Yet here I am, growing where no one stays, 2024 -
Tirdad Hashemi and Soufia Erfanian, I locked the door behind me but found myself in a room full of flowers I planted long ago, 2025 -
Tirdad Hashemi and Soufia Erfanian, Easy to love from far away, 2025 -
Tirdad Hashemi and Soufia Erfanian, Did you even think that I'd forget and regret? The special love I had for you my baby blue, 2026 -
Tirdad Hashemi and Soufia Erfanian, I don’t feel like giving this piece a title, 2026
